"You aren't yourself either. If you're aware of it, she probably is as well. You both might have made a bad decision, but it was a decision you made together, under the influence."

He can't say she won't feel betrayed. He doesn't know how she'll feel and he doesn't know how he would feel.

"I offered to listen and talk with you. It's not like you took me hostage to be your therapist. I'm a friend and friends help each other, even if that's just listening."