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[clouded_heart]

Hello everyone, this is Foggy with some questions of an adult nature for th adults of this community. Would those who are under the age of majority in their home please not continue on here, or do so aware that this is adult in nature.



Right, now that it's just us...

I have some questions about sexual health and this place. We come from a variety of worlds and times, and that means a variety of possible diseases and the ever possible pregnancy from the right sorts of activities.

Has anyone gathered information about STDs and this place? There's not a lot in the way of medicine, so it's something we need to keep on top of, especially with people coming and going with no warning.

And pregnancy. Is there some sort of protection people are using? Are we being safe, people?

We're adults. I know we're having sex. But we need to make sure everyone's safe and frankly, that we're not having babies in this place.

Comments

[clouded_heart]

I- don't consider it so much 'good' as, 'basic requirement of being a decent person and partner'.

Birth control has been a big part of my world on and off in various areas for centuries. Probably more, but I'm not much of a historian. And while some people think it's a woman's problem,, like I said above, if you contribute to the problem, you should contribute to the solution.

[championofsnark]

I agree with you, of course, but I've always taken care of myself so that's how I tend to look at it. No little Hawke's in the world needed.

[clouded_heart]

A lot of guys have a bad attitude about it. Which is... something I feel I should apologise for on behalf of my gender.

[championofsnark]

That is sweet of you, darling, but good men never have to apologize for the actions of the bad ones.

[clouded_heart]

I still feel a need to apologise. We're pretty shitty a lot of the time. As a gender.

[championofsnark]

I did surround myself with very good men, but in the army it was certainly less of a comfortable situation. Luckily I haven't met a man that I couldn't beat the snot out of given the chance.

[clouded_heart]

I promise, I am one of those men you could easily kick the crap out of.

[championofsnark]

About 95% of people I can. I beat a Qunari twice my size with a broadsword almost my full body length. He was a great warrior, unfortunately I had to kill him, I would normally leave those alone.

[clouded_heart]

I once hit a guy with a baseball bat because he was assaulting my friend.

That's all I have.